Dos And Don’ts: How To Break Up With Someone Mannerly

Dos And Don’ts: How To Break Up With Someone Mannerly

Break up seem to be irresistible in a relationship these days. It is definitely a hard time between you and your partner.  It is never easy for both parties to agree on that, even if they do, they will definitely not be in good terms. Breaking up is never easy but I assure you after going through this content you will understand how easy it could be.

In this content are the dos and don’ts on how to break up with your partner. I’m strongly assuring you that there is nothing to be scared about in trying out this.

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The Dos:

Be Truly Honest

Honesty is what you must possess when trying out these steps. If you are ready to call it a quit with him/her, be direct, share your reason with him/her for wanting to call it a quit. Explain your feelings calmly that shows how honest you are.

While explaining to them how things are not going to work out for both of you, Don’t forget to appreciate them for the good qualities in them too. Make sure not to spill the bad qualities in them when doing this.

Talk About The Good Times

Be sure to bring back those good memories you guys had. Emphasize on them and tell him/her how awesome and thankful you are for those times.

Cut Contact With Them

This is a must-do, even if he/she ask you to be just friends tell him/her to give you a break. By doing this it would give you time to heal. It’s totally acceptable to refrain yourselves from seeing or calling at least for a short period.

Make It Short And Sweet

If you have decided to break up, it is most advisable you be over with it as fast as possible. Making the conversation long might ruin things either making your partner pissed or him/her getting you pissed. Do not say many reasons why you are done with him/her just make it short and sweet.

 Avoid Argument

This seems to be inevitable but I can assure you it is. He/she would extremely be gutted but you have to stay put and calm your nerves because he/she wasn’t expecting it. Let them shout or yell at you it is a way of expressing their selves.

Break Up Maturely

You don’t need to shout when breaking up with your partner. Show empathy by putting yourself in their shoes. This is definitely a hard time for both of you but as an adult, you have to behave in a manner you would like to remember.

Say It In Your Partner’s Face

This is the last time you two would be together as lovers; it is most advisable you respect them by breaking up with them in person. And if it happens to be a long-distance relationship try to video chat them. There questions he/she definitely wants to ask you in person and you have to honor that.

The Don’ts

Don’t Break Up In Public

You do not do this especially when you know your partner is an emotional person. If you are insecure about going to their place make arrangements for you two to see in a private place. Please do not break up with your partner in public to avoid embarrassing them.

Don’t Blame Your Partner

Don’t play the blame game by accusing them of being the cause of the break-up. And if they try to respond negatively, don’t allow them to drag you into this. Try to maintain a positive relationship.

Don’t Lie About It

You don’t have to lie about the reason you are breaking up with them. It is better you tell them the truth and save them from the heartache it will cause them. No matter how annoying the reason could be it is better and advisable you tell them the truth.

Don’t Burn The Bridges

Burning your partner pictures and leaving abusive voicemails is the silliest thing you would do while breaking up with your partner. Constantly checking their recent posts or blocking them on social media is not advisable. If you must block them, take your time.

NOTE THAT:

You definitely have read how to break up with your partner peacefully. It is not easy especially when your partner seems to be this stubborn type. But this content will help you handle it. Do you have any questions? If yes, send them through the comment box and get an instant reply from us. Thank you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Benson Chidiebere
Author: Benson Chidiebere

Benson Chidiebere is one of the top Nigerian bestselling author, speaker, mentor, preacher, and entrepreneur. He has been reckoned to be one of the best up and doing young personnel whose main goal is youth.

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